South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

An African safari has topped my bucket list dreams for as long as I can remember. Although as we all know life can somewhat get in the way of wanderlusting. At first I couldn’t afford to go, after marriage and buying a house, I still couldn’t afford it. When I could finally even think about booking my dream holiday my little bambinos arrived, bringing a big fat halt to dreams of gallivanting around wild African landscapes and chasing tantalising wildlife adventures.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

So – Asha finally hit the magic age of five. Magical as it’s the age some lodges allow children to go on game drives. It was a done deal. Holiday booked!

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

We chose South Africa for our first family safari for a number of reasons. Firstly, it offers malaria free game reserves. A huge plus, even if the famous Kruger isn’t one of them. Secondly, travelling with children on a jam-packed schedule and limited time meant the minimal time difference and no jet lag was a winning combination.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

Travelling on safari will go down as one of our most incredible experiences as a family. Mr S and I will never forget their little faces as they saw their first sightings of wild elephants and lions. A family holiday on safari could be one of your best trips too, but it does need some careful planning.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

Here are my 7 top tips for a family adventure of a lifetime:

1. Know your child

This might sound a tad strange, of course you know your child. The one who always wakes you at the crack of dawn, leaves their smelly socks all over the place, kind of looks like you. I’m however talking about their personality particularly in the case of younger children. Two of the biggest concerns on safari is safety and noise level. A boisterous child will only frighten the animals away or worse still actually put you all in danger if they come across as a threat.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

Make sure you triple check age limits at your safari lodge too, they all have different restrictions. Not all lodges allow small children to go on game drives. The standard age is seven upwards and some lower the limit if you’re in a private jeep for just your family or will offer specific drives for children.

2. Choose the right lodge

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

There are two types. The classic safari lodge, which accepts children seven and upwards but provides no real child friendly facilities bar board games. It’s perfect for families with teenagers.

The other being family-friendly lodges where children are able to join game drives (minimum age limit will apply) and the lodge will offer supervised wildlife related activities for the children once back from safari.

We stayed at River Bend Lodge in the Addo National Elephant Park for our three-day safari. They accept children of all ages, great family accommodation and child-friendly activities. They don’t forget the parents either and offer a complimentary child minding service for when you need to squeeze in that essential massage. A review of my stay will be on the blog soon.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

3. Help them create their own memories

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

We gave the girls disposable cameras and when those ran out they moved on to taking videos on the iPhone. It really helped to keep them engaged with the happenings around them. The lodge also provided rusksacks with crayons and activity packs, all great to have on hand when you have the quieter moments on safari.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

My girls were obsessed with taking snaps of bones too and made Darren our ranger stop at every pile they spotted.

4. Suitable clothing

Safari days are fairly structured with two game drives a day. The first at the crack of dawn and the second late afternoon to early evening. When the sun’s not around, morning drives in an open-topped jeep can get cold.South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

We were in the jeep for 6.30am sharp, so no time for breakfast. Instead you stopped during the safari for an Amarula spiked coffee, hot chocolates for the kids and delicious African cakes in the bush.

We travelled to South Africa in April, which is basically their Autumn. Temperatures fluctuated from the late teens to the mid 30’s. The blankets the lodge provided in the jeep helped keep the chill at bay.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

Although I know the extra bag of leggings, hoodie tops and windproof jackets were also appreciated on the morning and early evening jaunts.

5. Manage expectations

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

This is the wild. There is no timetable or limited space where you’ll be able to easily spot the big game. You may have to wait for a very long time before anything really exciting happens (if at all). Although don’t underestimate the little creatures. We were all practically hanging out of the jeep at one point, fascinated by two dung beetles trying to roll whilst at the same time also commandeer the elephant poop. It’s where these protected critters eventually lay their eggs to hatch, so watching the tussle was quite entertaining.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

We lucked out and spotted four of the ‘big five’. The term was coined by the big-game hunters and refers to the five most difficult animals in Africa to hunt on foot. This includes the lion, elephant, Cape buffalo, rhino and leopard. It was the later which remained elusive for us, and for the locals. We were always asked by the staff at the lodge if we saw one to radio the lodge so they could be there like a shot to see the majestic big cat too.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

6. Stay sharp

Even though you’ll be with an experienced ranger, it’s still important to keep your wits about you at all times. Never forget to respect where you are. Oh and expect the unexpected. You’re in the wild after all.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

On our first game drive we had an incident where I was forced to appear as cool as a cucumber in front of the kids but internally thinking we were about to become a lion’s lunch. Halfway through our drive we ended up stuck in a ditch with a burst tyre. And as our ranger Darren jumped out to fix it with his trusted jack and ratchet spanner. The words of the Lodge Manager on our arrival were on constant re-wind spinning in my head ‘Hopefully you’ll see the lions they’re roaming hungry today, as they haven’t eaten for days’ Every rustle, rumble and ripple had Mr S and I on tenterhooks. Trust me it was the longest 30 minutes of my life.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

7. Re-engage your senses

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

I know what I said in tip three. The kids with their disposables, the adults sporting their latest SLR and a bag full of lenses. I’m all for re-living memories through snapshots and video footage once you’re back home. Hell, I’m a blogger a phone or camera is never too far away for life documentation on every social media platform imaginable. However, do remember to put the camera down and enjoy the moment.

There is so much to look at when out on a game drive. Using your ears will add a whole new dimension to your safari. Trust me the safari soundtrack is bloody awesome! In the distance you may just hear the grunting warthogs or barking zebras.

We were lucky to see a rare lion kill on our second game drive. And yes I have amazing photos of the lioness and her cubs chomping through a zebra whilst the lion watched on with his full belly, but my internal images will stay with me forever. Watching incredible wildlife moments in real-time is beyond magnificent. I felt so privileged to be there. Truly special moments.

South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari

Have you ever been on safari? Is it something you would consider with young children? Let me know in the comments box below?



Below are more posts from my South African adventures:

South Africa: 5 reasons why it’s great for families

South Africa: Cape Peninsula tour with CAT-AFRICA

South Africa: Exploring the Cape Winelands with Kids

South Africa: Lunch in Franschhoek at La Petite Ferme

South Africa: 7 Tips for an Incredible Family Safari

South Africa: The Elephant Sanctuary, Plettenberg Bay

South Africa: The Pot Luck Club in Cape Town

Top 5 stops on the Garden Route in South Africa

South Africa: Safari Luxury at River Bend Lodge

10 reasons why Cape Town stole my heart



South Africa: 7 tips for an incredible family safari



  1. 5th June 2017 / 1:25 pm

    Thanks for the great tips. We took our kids to SA when they were 1,3,5 and we definitely said we want our youngest to be 4 before we return for a safari. Even then I will be closely checking for whether he can actually sit still for extended periods! Can’t wait to get back though, hubby and I did one pre-marriage and loved it.

    • Sima Sthanakiya
      6th June 2017 / 9:42 pm

      It’s an incredible experience with your kids. Totally impressed that you went with a 1, 3 & 5 year old Keri! I’ve got the bug now and want to go again. Best start saving!!

  2. 5th June 2017 / 2:23 pm

    I’m off to South Africa this fall. Can’t wait! Will do a safari in the Kalahari. I’ve been on safari in Tanzania before, Serengeti and Ngorongoro Crater. Amazing!

    • Sima Sthanakiya
      6th June 2017 / 9:43 pm

      You’re going to have the best time. I’d love to go to Tanzania for a safari, my mum was born there and I’d love to see the country. Can’t wait to read your travel stories.

  3. 5th June 2017 / 5:58 pm

    WOW what an experience! I’ve never been on a safari, and I can’t say it’s too high on my to-do list, but what an incredible experience for children, to see those majestic animals in the wild, in their natural environment. Such a great way to help instil a deep respect for the environment, too!

    And oh boy, I’d be sweating buckets if my jeep got stuck out in the wild, too! 😉

    • Sima Sthanakiya
      6th June 2017 / 9:45 pm

      It as an incredible experience as a family. And you’re right it really does build their awareness of the beautiful yet fragile world we live in.

  4. 6th June 2017 / 10:05 pm

    This is amazing!!!!!! I love all these great tips. We really wanted to do a South Africa safari later this year, but my younger one will only be 3 and we couldn’t find that magical combination of age-appropriate and malaria-free. I’m hopeful that we can go once she’s around 6.


    • Sima Sthanakiya
      6th June 2017 / 10:53 pm

      My youngest was 5 when we went this Easter. Perfect age as we picked a lodge equipped to to young ones on drives. Maybe you can shave a year off Melissa!

  5. 7th June 2017 / 6:14 pm

    I absolutely love this post. Safari has long been on my list and I’m always so curious as to how it fares for young families. Sounds like you all had the trip of a lifetime. Your tips are great and I especially like the one about the senses and listening. I can’t believe the story about the tire – I would have been freaking out too! #mondayescapes

  6. 30th November 2017 / 9:56 pm

    Yes! Know your child is Rule #1. My husband and I love safaris. The first time we went our daughter had just turned 5 and was still too rambunctious and had too short of an attention span. My husband still thinks she would have been fine, but I don’t know. You all seem even braver than me. We went by ourselves to Botswana with Rothschild, but then last year, we decided to take our daughter this time, and you’re right South Africa is a great spot for kids, families, and first-timers. Malaria-free game reserves are great, but you still need to get your shots beforehand!

  7. 4th December 2017 / 4:53 pm

    Really useful post! I used to be a travel agent and there were very few child-friendly places to send families so it’s great you found somewhere suitable. What did your girls think of the lion kill?

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